Chemsex Freedom™
Does changing your relationship with Chemsex mean giving up everything you love?
A private 90-day programme designed to help you understand your relationship with Chemsex, regain choice and control, and decide what you want your sex life — and your life — to look like from here.
- Private & self-directed
- Around 30 minutes a day
- 12 months’ access
Justin Duwe — Creator of Chemsex Freedom™
Do any of these sound familiar?
Maybe you’ve been asking yourself…
Why do I keep going back when I said I wouldn’t?
Why can I control so much of my life — but not always this?
Do I actually have a problem, or am I overreacting?
Could I enjoy sex without chems?
What if I stop and my sex life is never as good again?
Do I really want to stop — or do I just want things to be different?
If you’ve been asking yourself questions like these, you don’t need to have the answers yet.
The fact that you’re asking may be enough reason to look more closely.
It can look like everything is fine.
A life that looks successful isn’t always a life that feels free.
You can have the career.
The apartment.
The body.
The friends.
The holidays.
The life that looks perfectly fine from the outside.
And still find yourself doing something privately that no longer feels completely under your control.
You don’t have to lose everything before you’re allowed to change something.
Because Chemsex is rarely just about Chemsex.
What does Chemsex give you?
Confidence.
Connection.
Sex.
Energy.
Escape.
Belonging.
Freedom.
So when somebody tells you to “just stop,” they’re not necessarily asking you to give up one thing.
It can feel as though they’re asking you to give up everything that came with it.
No wonder the answer can feel complicated.
And what has Chemsex started taking in return?
Time.
Sleep.
Money.
Focus.
Relationships.
Sex.
Control.
Self-respect.
Perhaps the question isn’t whether Chemsex gives you something.
It’s whether the price has become too high.
The Bigger Work
What if you could build a life you no longer needed to escape from?
Chemsex can become an escape from stress, loneliness, pressure, rejection, boredom, insecurity, exhaustion — or simply the feeling that something is missing.
Chemsex Freedom isn’t only interested in what happens when an urge appears. It’s interested in the life underneath it.
What’s not working?
What’s missing?
What do you want more of?
Because lasting change isn’t only about what you leave behind.
It’s about what you build in its place.
This isn’t about making your life smaller.
Your life should get bigger. Not smaller.
Chemsex Freedom isn’t about taking away sex. Or friendship. Or excitement. Or confidence. Or connection. The more interesting question is whether Chemsex has become the price you’re paying to access some of those things — and whether another way might exist.
What do you need? What do you want?
They can be two of the hardest questions to answer.
More control.
More choice.
Sober sex.
Real intimacy.
Healthy love.
Deep connection.
Optimal health.
True confidence.
A meaningful career.
A sense of accomplishment.
Dreams worth pursuing.
Possibilities you thought were out of reach.
Your future.
90 Days From Now
What could be different 90 days from now?
Imagine understanding what triggers the pull toward Chemsex before you’re already in it.
Imagine being able to experience an urge without automatically following it.
Imagine sex becoming something you can explore rather than something that only feels possible or exciting with chems.
Imagine trusting yourself again.
Imagine waking up after a weekend feeling proud of the choices you made rather than trying to piece together the ones you didn’t intend to make.
Imagine Chemsex taking up less space in your mind — and the rest of your life taking up more.
No programme can promise what your individual outcome will be. These are some of the areas Chemsex Freedom is designed to help you explore and change.
Understanding vs. Change
Information can help you understand. Change requires something more.
You can learn a great deal about Chemsex from a book, a podcast, an article or a YouTube video — including mine. That free content is genuinely valuable: it offers insight, education and understanding.
But knowing why something happens and changing what happens when the moment arrives are two different things.
Chemsex Freedom isn’t simply 90 videos about Chemsex.
It’s a structured programme of reflection, action and change.
Free content
- Insight
- Education
- Understanding
Chemsex Freedom™
- Insight
- Education
- Understanding
- Structure
- Daily application
- Guided reflection
- Practical tools
- Personal exercises
- Guided journal
- 90-day progression
- Clinically informed approach
- Optional expert support
- A clear path forward
Understanding Chemsex is important.
But understanding alone doesn’t always create change.
Chemsex Freedom gives you a structured programme for turning insight into action — with guided reflection, practical tools, a progressive 90-day framework and optional expert support when you want it.
Chemsex Freedom is built around an approach Justin has developed and used in his clinical work with men for years.
The Programme
90 days. Around 30 minutes a day. A much bigger conversation.
- 90 Days
- A structured journey
- Daily Video + Guided Journal
- Justin is with you every day
- 13 Weeks
- From understanding to growth
- 12 Months’ Access
- Time to return to what matters
I’m with you every day.
Every day begins with a short video from me, followed by the accompanying journal work. I won’t tell you what your life should look like — I’ll help you understand what’s been keeping you stuck, and begin building a different relationship with chems.
How the 90 Days Work
This isn’t 90 videos to watch. It’s 90 days of work we’re going to do together.
- 01Watch
A short daily lesson from Justin.
- 02Reflect
Use the guided journal to connect the day’s idea to your own life.
- 03Act
Take an insight, decision, experiment or action into the real world.
- 04Build
Each day builds on the last.
Your Privacy
Change your relationship with Chemsex without making your private life public.
Work through the programme privately, in your own time, from wherever you are.
You don't need an audience to change your life.
No groups.
You won't be asked to discuss your life with a room of strangers.
No community.
There is no social feed or public participant profile.
No compulsory sharing.
What you explore through the programme remains your work.
The 13-Week Structure
Three phases across 90 days.
Weeks 1–4
Understand
Understand the pattern, what’s underneath it and the role Chemsex has come to play.
Weeks 5–9
Challenge
Relationships, sex, success, belonging, triggers and cravings.
Weeks 10–13
Build
Habits, identity, relationships, sex, purpose and the life you want after Chemsex.
Why I created Chemsex Freedom™
This isn’t about taking everything away.
Justin Duwe on why changing your relationship with Chemsex requires more than simply stopping.
Why Justin?
Justin Duwe
Psychologist · Sexologist · Author
“For more than 20 years, I’ve worked with men around addiction, sex, relationships, self-esteem and the complicated ways we learn to cope.”
- 20+ years clinical experience
- BACP accredited since 2014
- Author of The Truth About Chemsex
My understanding of addiction didn’t begin in a textbook. Addiction has touched my own life and my family profoundly.
Those experiences, together with more than two decades of working with other men, shaped Chemsex Freedom™ — the programme I wish I’d had when I was struggling.
Suitability
Is Chemsex Freedom for me?
Chemsex Freedom may be for you if…
You don’t necessarily identify as an addict.
Your life may still look successful from the outside.
You may still enjoy parts of Chemsex.
You may want abstinence — or you may not know what you want yet.
You’ve tried making rules around Chemsex and haven’t always kept them.
You’re concerned about where things could go if nothing changes.
You want to understand yourself rather than shame yourself.
You want a private and structured way to work on this.
When this programme may not be enough
Chemsex Freedom™ is an educational and self-development programme. It is not a substitute for emergency care, medical treatment, detoxification, psychiatric care or other appropriate professional healthcare.
If you are in crisis, physically dependent, or need medical or psychiatric support, please speak with a doctor or an appropriate healthcare service alongside — or instead of — this programme.
14-Day Money-Back Guarantee
Take 14 days to decide.
Start Chemsex Freedom and experience the programme for yourself.
If you decide within 14 days of purchase that it isn’t right for you, let us know and we’ll refund your programme purchase. No need to justify your decision.
Individual consultations are separate services. Any consultation already provided during the 14-day period is not included in the programme refund.
You don’t have to decide what you’re doing for the rest of your life.
You only have to decide whether the relationship you have with Chemsex today is the relationship you want to keep having.
Give yourself 90 days to discover what else might be possible.
Private programme · 12 months’ access · 14-day money-back guarantee